Friday, 1 February 2019

Starting my 2019 Resolutions in February

Both gifs used in this post are not mine

I have never been the sort of person to stick to resolutions, and I'm sure a lot of people can relate. I try to make one resolution each about the following things in my life: reading, writing, health, and work. This is what they usually look like:

1. Read at least one book a week
2. Write that book! And publish it!
3. Do lots of exercise and stop taking my anxiety medication
4. Get a fabulous job that pays lots of money

Obviously, they are not realistic resolutions to complete in the space of just one year, and most of them are actually not within my control. I can write an entire book, but it may not be good enough/ready to be published, as well as the fact that publishing usually takes more than a few months. Coming off my anxiety medication is definitely not realistic, because whilst I may go a few months feeling okay I have been known to crash quickly.

The fact of the matter is, I always set the bar too high. Pair that with the cold and depressing month of January where all you want to do is hide underneath your duvet, and you have the recipe for instant failure.

This year, I decided to focus on getting through January without tremendous pressure, and instead set some more realistic goals for February and beyond. Here is what I have decided to commit myself to:

Reading: I have set my target on Goodreads to 45 - the lowest I have ever set it. This adds up to just under a book a week, and instead of buying lots of books, I will support my local library more often.

Writing: This February, I will finish a book that I am already working on. I will get the first draft done, and the editing can come later. I will set myself a target of 2 pages a day.

Health: This includes both physical and mental health. I am going to set specific days to do yoga during the morning, and a day a week to do something more physical, whatever that may be. The first thing I eat every day will be a piece of fruit, but I will not force myself to monitor my intake all of the time. I will also find a more intense way to combat my anxiety, because it is time to take back control of my life.

Career: I will find another part-time job (I have just been let go from my seasonal work) and even if it isn't perfect it will be enjoyable and will pay enough so that I can live comfortably and travel often.

Hobbies: I will take up the violin again, perhaps find a choir to join in my area, and I will indulge myself in all of the beautiful art I can find. I will also go and watch movies more often, because they make me happy.

Extra: I will be less reliant on social media for my life standards, and maybe will even delete a few apps from my phone.

So there you go! I will update you with how my resolutions are going, but I know that by being less harsh on myself, I will automatically be more successful.

Why don't you have a go? Create some resolutions for yourself in February, and be kinder to yourself in 2019.

Monday, 28 January 2019

Review: The Truths and Triumphs of Grace Atherton by Anstey Harris

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Title: The Truths and Triumphs of Grace Atherton
Author: Anstey Harris
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Release Date: 10th January 2019
Genre: Adult Fiction
Page Count: 368 
Original Language: English
Format Read: Paperback
Other books in series: N/A
Movie Adaptation: N/A 

I borrowed an early-release copy of The Truths and Triumphs of Grace Atherton from my place of work, and I am so glad I got to read it before it was officially released out into the world. I picked it up because it was recommended for people who enjoyed Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine and I have to say that for once, the comparison was helpful.

Grace Atherton has an exciting life. She is involved in an eight year affair with David, a married man, and they are deeply in love. They spend weekends in a beautiful apartment in Paris, and then go their separate ways, and Grace goes back to her life as the owner of a music shop. 

Everything is perfect, until David saves a woman from falling to her death on the train tracks, and the whole world wants to know the identity of the Metro Hero. When they finally identify him, his wife and children find out about the affair, and Grace's life comes crashing down.

This book was exactly the kind I needed to kick-start my 2019. You go into the story believing that Grace's life is consumed by her relationship with David and that is all the novel will focus on, but what you actually find is a beautiful story about friendship and finding those people who will go the extra mile to help you achieve your goals. 

Grace is a cello player and a music school drop-out, and the secret behind why she was forced to leave is slowly revealed to us. It is shocking, but allows us to understand the character of Grace and her motivations for the decisions she makes. I'm so glad that romance fell off her list of priorities, because this book deserves to be more than a broken woman stuck in an affair with a married man.

The plot was character driven (my favourite kind of plot!) and there were brilliant contrasts between the three friends. There is Grace, a heart-broken woman in her 30's who didn't know where her life is heading, her school-girl employee Nadia, and old regular customer Mr Williams. The difference in age and circumstance brought different perspectives to the story - especially with Nadia being a teenage soon-to-be mum and Mr Williams an older gay man. These are perspectives you rarely see in books or television, and I really appreciated the range of characters that Anstey Harris brought to us.

Overall, this book was beautifully written, with almost a musical flare in descriptions of the key settings such as Paris and Italy, to the point where I could taste the bread and cheeses. It is a surprising book that points out the flaws in human beings, but also shows how beautifully in-tune we can be with one another.

About the Author

Anstey Harris is based by the seaside in south-east England where she lives with her violinmaker husband and two dogs. She teaches creative writing in the community, local schools, and as an associate lecturer for Christchurch University in Canterbury.

Anstey HarrisAnstey writes about the things that make people tick, the things that bind us and the things that can rip us apart. In 2015, she won the H G Wells Short Story Prize for her story, Ruby. In novels, Anstey tries to celebrate uplifting ideas and prove that life is good and that happiness is available to everyone once we work out where to look (usually inside ourselves). 

Sunday, 11 November 2018

My predictions for Season 11 of Doctor Who

All photos in this post courtesy of the BBC

After what many people are saying is the strongest episode of the series so far, Demons of the Punjab, there are theories flying around concerning the rest of the series. You should know by now that I love to analyse writing, especially writing for television shows that I'm a fan of, so I wanted to get in on this and put out a few theories of my own:

1. We were told there wasn't going to be an arc for the season, and that there were going to be 10 stand-alone episodes. However, with talk of a "Timeless Child" arc coming into play, who could be the timeless child, and in what context? The timeless child could obviously be the Doctor, but with the family theme playing heavily in every episode so far, perhaps we'll see more of the Doctor's family at the end of the season, or hints of them for the next season. Maybe even Yasmin or Ryan could be the timeless child?

2. There are rumours that Ryan and Graham are not coming back for season 12, but there has been no news of Yasmin leaving the show. Yasmin has been the companion spending the most time with the Doctor so far, so it would make sense that their bond would be stronger and she would have a harder time letting go at the end of the series. Will Yasmin be the sole companion of season 12? I think there's a strong chance she will be.

3. If Yasmin stays on for season 12, and the timeless child arc doesn't get resolved in season 11, there is a chance for lots of ideas to be explored. If the timeless child is one of the Doctor's family, then Yasmin meeting the Doctor's family would make a really good comparison to when the Doctor met Yasmin's family in Arachnids in the UK. This would be a huge leap in character development for her, and it would further strengthen their bond. On the other hand, if the timeless child is Yasmin, it makes sense for the arc to be stretched out and for her to carry on travelling with the Doctor, as it would make for a brilliant surprise in season 12.

4. I have talked a lot about the Doctor and Yasmin's bond. If they were to leave Ryan and Graham behind at the end of season 11, and carry on travelling on their own in season 12, this would accelerate the strength of that bond. We have had hints that the Doctor is a little bit smitten with Yasmin (and vice versa) in season 11 already, so if their chemistry grows stronger, it could make for a really nice romantic storyline in season 12. Or, for angst if they decide to have a 'skinny love' situation. Skinny love, meaning that the two of them are in love with each other, but there isn't enough communication to ensure that they both know it, and they are both too embarrassed or scared to share those feelings. I think there's evidence of this already happening (Najia's questioning in Arachnids, the end scene in Demons) and those feelings could strengthen if they travelled alone.

5. We have not seen the end of Tim Shaw. Or Robertson. They both do not feel like throwaway characters. I do, however, think we've seen the last of the Pting... don't worry, you'll probably be able to buy the plushie version soon enough. I can't say the same for Tim Shaw.

What do you think is going to happen? Let me know!

It will be interesting to see if I get any of this right. If I do, brilliant. If I don't, then it goes to show that just when you think Doctor Who can't surprise you anymore, it goes and does it anyway.